She Planned The Whole Wedding (Without Telling Him)
She had the venue, the dress, and the guest list sorted. Only problem — he hadn't proposed yet.
Names and identifying details have been changed to protect the privacy of the individuals involved.
Fazura and Haziq had been together for three years. Three good years — trips to Langkawi, matching baju raya, the whole thing. Everyone around them assumed they were heading somewhere. Fazura assumed it too.
So when she started planning the wedding, she figured she was just being practical.
It started small. A Pinterest board here, a WhatsApp group with her sisters there. Then came the Canva mood board. Then a visit to a wedding hall in Shah Alam — just to "survey survey." The mak andam was booked with a RM500 deposit. The photographer had them pencilled in for March 2027.
Haziq knew none of this.
He found out the way nobody wants to find out — a screenshot of Fazura's sisters' WhatsApp group landed in his lap by accident. Full itinerary. Table arrangements. A note that said *"Haziq's side — confirm 80 pax by October."*
He called her that evening, voice flat. "Bila masa kita dah tunang?"
Fazura laughed it off. Said she was just keeping options open. That it's easier to cancel than to scramble last minute.
Haziq didn't laugh. He said it felt like she'd already decided their future without him. That he felt like a prop in someone else's story.
She said he was being dramatic. That every woman plans her wedding in her head. That if he had a problem with it, maybe the real issue was that he still hadn't said anything after three years.
And that's where it got loud.
Whose side are you on?
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Let's be honest — Fazura jumped about fifteen steps ahead without checking if her passenger was even in the car. Booking vendors and managing guest lists for a wedding that hasn't been discussed? That's not "just planning." That's pressure dressed up as preparation.
But Haziq isn't off the hook either. Three years is a long time to leave someone guessing. If you have no timeline, no intention, no conversation — you don't get to act shocked when she fills the silence herself.
The real problem isn't the Canva board. It's that they'd never actually talked about where this was going. She assumed. He avoided. And they both let it go on too long.
Communicate, people. Seriously lah.